I am not a mountain expert, and I most certainly am not a parenting expert.
What I am though is someone who loves exploring, learning, and a good challenge.
Five things that adventures in both the mountains and parenting have taught me:
I’ve always loved the mountains and have many fond memories of exploring them as a child and adolescent. Through hiking, camping, skiing, and simply enjoying being in their presence cultivated a lifelong love. Into my adulthood, this adoration grew and they have built an incredible foundation for my husband and I to explore, grow, and adventure together. We’ve learned that facing a good challenge together makes us stronger and also creates the best stories. It was no doubt that we would share these adventures with our daughters from a young age.
We have been parents for five years and I have developed a deep yearning for cultivating a strong lifelong bond with our children. It is important to me to have a parent-child relationship now, but also remembering that we are raising adults with whom we want a solid friendship. From personal experience, a few podcast episodes, and mainly conversations with parents with grown children, I have learned that making memories, quality time, and conversations with our Littles build this foundation.
I also believe that honesty [at their current developmental level] is also a key factor. So, when I realized that I had parked at the wrong parking lot and we had hiked an extra 4.1kms (on what was supposed to be a 3.6km hike), I didn't know what to do. I didn't want to hide my mistake from her, but I also felt instantly sick to my stomach knowing we were going to have to push through to make it to the campground in time to set up our tent and for supper. We played games, kept the trail mix and Dinosours handy, and continued along the gorgeous Upper Kananaskis Lake. We finally arrived at The Point [after only one fatigue-induced scrape on her knee] and I was so relieved. We found a beautiful campsite and as Brooke helped me set up the tent I confessed. In the sweetest way possible she replied, " Why didn't you tell me sooner?" Forgiveness is a huge relief and this situation was no different.
I was grateful for her, the beauty that surrounded us, and that I had the courage to be honest with her. We then talked about how the first part of the hike [aka the part that we weren't "supposed" to do] was more beautiful that the latter and we were actually glad that I had made the error! The views of the lake, the beaches we took breaks on, and the discussions we had were worth it. Amazing.
I could go on for hours on how meaningful this trip was and how I hope to never forget each beautiful detail, but I will save those moments in my heart and share a few of my favourites with you here.
What I am though is someone who loves exploring, learning, and a good challenge.
Five things that adventures in both the mountains and parenting have taught me:
- A few nerves are a good thing: they keep the adrenaline high and your ego in check.
- Be prepared, but keep an open mind: there will always be unpredictable circumstances that we cannot control.
- Find joy in the peaceful moments: take a deep breath and soak it all in.
- Quality time is so incredibly important: as an entire family, one-on-one with your spouse and each child, as well as with yourself.
- The biggest adventures make the best stories: enjoy the journey and all of the energy you poured into it!
I prayed that we would be given weather we could handle, adventure that would bring us closer together, and memories that would last a lifetime.
I’ve always loved the mountains and have many fond memories of exploring them as a child and adolescent. Through hiking, camping, skiing, and simply enjoying being in their presence cultivated a lifelong love. Into my adulthood, this adoration grew and they have built an incredible foundation for my husband and I to explore, grow, and adventure together. We’ve learned that facing a good challenge together makes us stronger and also creates the best stories. It was no doubt that we would share these adventures with our daughters from a young age.
We have been parents for five years and I have developed a deep yearning for cultivating a strong lifelong bond with our children. It is important to me to have a parent-child relationship now, but also remembering that we are raising adults with whom we want a solid friendship. From personal experience, a few podcast episodes, and mainly conversations with parents with grown children, I have learned that making memories, quality time, and conversations with our Littles build this foundation.
I also believe that honesty [at their current developmental level] is also a key factor. So, when I realized that I had parked at the wrong parking lot and we had hiked an extra 4.1kms (on what was supposed to be a 3.6km hike), I didn't know what to do. I didn't want to hide my mistake from her, but I also felt instantly sick to my stomach knowing we were going to have to push through to make it to the campground in time to set up our tent and for supper. We played games, kept the trail mix and Dinosours handy, and continued along the gorgeous Upper Kananaskis Lake. We finally arrived at The Point [after only one fatigue-induced scrape on her knee] and I was so relieved. We found a beautiful campsite and as Brooke helped me set up the tent I confessed. In the sweetest way possible she replied, " Why didn't you tell me sooner?" Forgiveness is a huge relief and this situation was no different.
It is okay to show our Littles that we are also human, that we make mistakes, and that we can accept forgiveness as well as forgive ourselves.
I was grateful for her, the beauty that surrounded us, and that I had the courage to be honest with her. We then talked about how the first part of the hike [aka the part that we weren't "supposed" to do] was more beautiful that the latter and we were actually glad that I had made the error! The views of the lake, the beaches we took breaks on, and the discussions we had were worth it. Amazing.
I could go on for hours on how meaningful this trip was and how I hope to never forget each beautiful detail, but I will save those moments in my heart and share a few of my favourites with you here.
Be kind. Love hard. Smile lots.
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